Wednesday, October 14, 2015

Dinner Lessons




One Thanksgiving we were crowded around the dinner table with my wife’s family.
And our hostess—my mother-in-law—asked:
If you could choose anyone from history,
Who would you pick to have over for dinner and conversation.
As we worked our way around the table,
People chose Abraham Lincoln, Benjamin Franklin, John Kennedy.
When we got to my Jewish sister-in-law, she said, Jesus.

As we look at the bible,
It seems there was no shortage of Jews who wanted to have Jesus over for dinner.
He dined at the home of Martha and Mary and Lazarus.
The homes of Matthew, Zacheus, Peter’s mother-in-law,
The homes of many others including this Pharisee.
And, like today, the dining wasn’t just about the food.
It was about conversation, old or new friendships, sharing ideas.
And for Jesus, an opportunity to teach.

Considering that setting,
When the host showed amazement that Jesus skipped the ritual washing,
What would be the tone of Jesus’ words to his Pharisee host?
Probably not overly harsh and condemning.
More of the teacher pointing out the student’s error.
If you look at the scripture text, there are exclamation points.
Oh you Pharasees!  You fools!
Of course the Gospels weren’t written with punctuation.
That was a later grammatical invention.
But clearly, the translators interpreted those phrases as exclamations.

But that doesn’t mean they had a harsh or condemning edge.
Probably more a tone of loving exasperation.
From the wise teacher who knows the truth and sees the need for correction.
Oh you Pharasees!  You fools!
You’re so concerned about outward things, rituals—appearances!
You’re concerned about the wrong things!
It’s what’s inside that counts!

Like that Pharisee, we too are concerned with ritual
As we gather to dine at this Eucharistic feast.
Much of our Mass is ritual.
But we already have what that Pharisee didn’t have before he sat down with Jesus.
We’ve already heard the wisdom that Jesus has passed down to us through the scriptures.
We know that what really matters is what’s inside us.
So, we use this ritualistic setting as a time of nourishment for the spirit within.

Nourishment from the liturgy of the word.
Listening to and reflecting upon scripture—the word of God.
And nourishment from the liturgy of the Eucharist.
Food for thought.
And food for spiritual growth.

We know all that.
But, like that Pharisee, we still need reminders.
Even more than our religious rituals,
Our daily lives, our culture, our society, persistently draw us to outward things.

If we could have Jesus  over for dinner and conversation.
He’d still have much cause to say
Oh, you people!

Tuesday 28th Week Ordinary Time
Lk 11:37-41     Read this Scripture @usccb.org

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